Your relationship with yourself, sets the tone for every other relationship you have.
If you are always judging yourself and you are always trying to live up to the expectations of others, most likely the same thing will happen in your relationship with your partner. Either you will end up with a partner always judging you or in most cases, you end up always judging them and so forth. If you find yourself always in those kind of destructive relationships, my advice to you is simply to keep in mind;
“You attract what you are”.
If you want someone to love you for who you are and someone with whom you can just be yourself with…I suggest that you try these things out first;
- Start with loving yourself for all your flaws and imperfections and see your own beauty and wonder.
- Stop pretending to be someone other than yourself. Be open, be honest, be true to yourself – always be the person you are, when you know no one is looking.