Make your own happiness. Choose to be happy, don’t let others choose for you.
When you rely on others to make you happy, you will most likely be unhappy most of the time. When you learn to love yourself, you life, your blessings, your body and mind, only then can you embrace your life and find happiness. People can only enhance that love and happiness, but it’s really up to you to choose if you want to live a happy life or you can allow others to make that choice for you, but why would you give another person so much power over you? Life is and always will be about the choices we make.